Close the Common App Tab. You Did It!
Four years of hard work, countless assignments, long nights and early mornings, extracurriculars, test prep, and all those tiny details—compressed into one application and submitted. Just like that, you sent off a representation of your high school self, hoping it results in acceptance letters!
This was probably one of the most important applications you’ve ever submitted, so take some time to process it. Be proud of yourself for staying dedicated and finishing strong. Packaging your entire high school journey into a college application takes immense creativity, energy, and resilience. And you did it. That in itself is a huge achievement.
I know it’s extremely difficult, but try not to think too much about the results right now. Have faith that no matter the outcome, you will be okay. Going through this process, it’s hard to believe that everything will work out—but take it from someone who once thought her world had ended after being rejected from her Early Decision college: I’m literally fine now.
The countless hours I spent crying in my bed, letting go of a life I had imagined for myself, were just a way to process my emotions. But in the end, I got into the University of Rochester, and now I can’t imagine myself anywhere more fitting.
So no matter what happens, you will be okay. But, of course, I’m hoping you get the result you’re wishing for. Fingers crossed! In the meantime here are some suggestions on how to keep your mind busy during this time!
Spring is Coming—So grow with It
Let’s be honest, for the past few years, every decision you made—every club you joined, every leadership role you took on, every summer program you attended—was likely driven by the question: Will this look good on my college applications?
Now, for the first time in a long time, you don’t have to think that way. Spring is a season of growth, and what better time to explore something for yourself beyond what fits into a resume? This is your chance to try things you never had time for and embrace new experiences without an agenda.
- Pick up a hobby for fun—Do something to calm your mind without thinking about how this fits into your college application story. I got really into painting and creative writing after submitting my applications, and it was one of the most comforting things I did after such a stressful process.
- Spend time with your high school friends—These are the last few months you’ll all be together before life takes you in different directions, so make the most of them. Soon, everyone will be scattered across different cities, and group hangouts won’t be as effortless. So make sure the plans make it out of the group chat before it’s too late!
- Explore your hometown—visit that coffee shop you always meant to try, take a different route home, or go to a local event. You’ve spent years here, but soon it’ll just be the place you used to live. Take it all in.
This is your main character era
The months leading up to college feel like every teenage rom-com movie. This is the time to romanticize your life, to embrace the uncertainty, and to fully live in the moment.
So go on—have deep late-night talks with your best friends, take spontaneous drives, and soak in the feeling of being on the edge of something new.
The admissions decision will come when it comes. But in the meantime, this is your story. Make it memorable! My fingers are crossed for you, good luck!!